Welcome To The World Our Son Kaliq Rafael

 

our precious lil Kaliq was born on 13 /12/11 at 7.55 pm at 3.15 kg Hospital Serdang. we felt so blessed .alhamdulilah 

Bunga Akar Siti Fatimah Untuk Mudahkan Bersalin?

Ada dua yang orang selalu sebut sebut untuk mudahkan bersalin.1 air selusuh 1 lagi air akar bunga siti fatimah ni.

Air selusuh ni air biasa or air zam zam yang dibacakan doa tertentu by ustat (doa dia banyak dan macam macam versi kat internet) ataupun orang kata paling elok suami sendiri yang baca bacakan. Air selusuh ni biasa orang ambik masa dah nak bersalin.

Air bunga ni pulak direndam kemudian bila bunga dia kembang macam gambar tuh boleh minum seawal 38minggu. Sama jugak fungsi dia untuk mudahkan bersalin tapi bunga ni tak tau la kat mana nak cari kat sini sebab kebanyakannya ambik kat Mekah.ni pun mak long Que yang kasi.selawat 3kali kemudian minum.

Ada yang kata bila bunga ni direndam bila bunganya kembang maknanya dah nak bersalin.hehe.tapi ni dah banyak kali rendam.rasanya kali ke 3 kot sebab kadang lupa nak minum pastu air tu jadi semacam lepas tuh angkat balik keringkan bunga tu akan kuncup balik lepas tu rendam balik.

Apa pun cara kita cuma berikhtiar.well I'm just sharing :)

38 Weeks Pregnant!

Again alhamdulilah that I reach this point!

Many said that by 38weeks u can already deliver.kira baby dah cukup bulan sangat untuk lahir.38weeks kira equals to 9month and 14days.

Now I'm wishing everyday that my baby lahir awal.memang the fact nak melahirkan tuh yeah u can already imagine the pain and all but to tell u the truth I can't handle the pain now anymore.huhu.baby is super heavy.its so hard to breath if I lay down.its kinda like dia hempap ur body.haha.beratnya anak mummy ni.plus its not easy to get up anymore.I can feel the pain so bad that walking is not an easy task not to even mention waking up from bed!

My feet is also swollen.lucky I have a wonderful husband to massage my feet. Eventhough my due date is on 24th(another 16days by the time I'm posting this) I'm gona take my maternity leave starting this 12th because I can't handle work anymore!I'm gona take my time off resting...makan apa nak huhu and away from office work and drama! And focus on self,baby and my family.

To be updated soon!

37 Weeks Pregnant!

Bismillahirahmanirahim

Wah I totally forget that I'm officially 37weeks today..

Everything at the moment is still the same.so anxious!semalam I said to Que(hubs) part of me memang tak sabar nak tengok baby kalau boleh cepatla bersalin but part of me is so scared of the process of giving birth.well now u know how ur mum's feels kan!

Tiap tiap malam I can't sleep.I wake up around 2 or 3am then tak boleh tidur for like 2 to 3 hours.nasib baik la ada hp ni ha buat teman kalau tak memang kesengalan la.

Well I'm counting down now.according to my due date I got herm 22days more to go.adoi not that long!doakan me well people :)
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36 Weeks Equals 9Months!

Bismillahirahmanirahim

By the time I'm typing this alhamdullillah I had pass my 36weeks!equals to 9month.memang hari hari sekarang in my head asyik 'erk bila nak beranak ni?'Well I did read that when pregnant lady reach this period yeah all they can think of is the same thing..

By now baby memang sangat sangatla aktif bergerak.mengalahkan buat breakdance dalam perut.you see when I watch on youtube masa early pregnancy dulu how the baby move siap berbonjol bonjol perut I just can't believe that.tapi bila alami sendiri Masyaallah what a miracle.kadang kadang seronok jugak tengok dia duk bergerak gerak sampai berbonjol perut but I have to admit sometime its quite scary haha to even think ada insan bernyawa yang kita duk carry all along.

Masa my early pregnancy I was very cautious.sakit perut sikit je I check ada blood ke tak.yela takut sangat.that's why bila dah sampai stage ni rasa bersyukur ya amat.

Let me tell u how I feel now.yela kadang kita baca kat internet or books tak memberi gambaran sebenar sangat what happen.basically I can't sleep without waking up in the middle of the night like 4 or 5 times...once dah baring nak bangun or turn sides memang amatla menyakitkan...this is because the baby head dah betul betul kat bawah so memang doktor cakap akan menyukarkan my movement.the pain well pregnant people memang mak hai.how to gambarkan eh...macam kena tumbuk kot.sekali dah baring nak bangun memang macam lipas terbalik..pernah tengok lipas terbalik. Ha pi carik lipas pastu terbalikkan.

Walking is not an easy task.jalan la like 5minutes or short distance.dia punya penat macam lari 5km.standing is the same.tak sampai 5minit dah lenguh.baring badan straight u can easily semput.and oh yes heartburn.pergh ni memang killing..1 botol gaviscon (selamat untuk ibu mengandung tapi ambik yang klinik punya) memang dalam 2minggu(tak sampaila)habis dah.malam malam memang kalau tak pedih ulu ati memang terkencing jela kejenya.kencing pun bukan banyak,rasa nak terkencing tu yang lebih pastu nak bangun kemain hazab.

For me at this stage pregnant lady should be more be cherish.yela deep down inside especially for first time mother like me memang macam macam la duk risau.how to give birth?am I gonna be a good mother?my life gonna be forever change anytime soon.this kind of question memang duk linger in our head everyday.

And this is the time yang I think husband should be caring enough sebab u never know what's goin to happen during giving birth and after.we should feel appriciated.
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Alhamdulillah 34 Weeks

Bismillahirahmanirahim.
It has been awhile that I haven't update my blog. Reason because office had block google access so since blogspot is under google memang sah sah tak boleh bukak la kan.suffering jugak la nak menaip pakai keypad kecik blackberry ni.

Alhamdulilah I'm reaching my 34weeks now. According to the due date I still got another 6weeks to go.my oh my bila sebut 6minggu nampak macam masyaallah cepat je kan. So everyday now and then memang rasa sangat sangat berdebar.

I'm suffering this saraf pain betul betul kat bawah perut. Dia punya sakit siapa yang pernah mengandung dan pernah kena macam ni masa mengandung je tau. Nurse dekat klinik kesihatan kata sebab kepala baby dah betul betul kat bawah. Jadi makin besar makin streching la kita punya saraf. Memang rasa nak menangis dia punya sakit.I can't sleep,I can't turn,I can't lift my leg plus nak bangun pun masyaallah susah sangat. Sometime seriously I did cry sebab sakit sangat. Even sometime I do feel like ya Allah tolong la bagi aku bersalin cepat. Memang jadi kurang sabar sangat tapi tula in the end aku selalu pikir with all the pain I know in the end will be something good for me. Insyaallah.

Persiapan. Herm ntah la. Tak berapa sangatla. Disebabkan keadaan kewangan yang sangat la tak mengizinkan. Ini la yang buat aku termenung berpikir. Orang kata jangan risau ada la rezeki anak tuh nanti. But still kita as a parents of course la pikir macam mana la nak sara budak tuh nanti dengan mak bapak dia banyak sangat komitmen nak kena setlekan immidiately. Tambah pulak tarikh dah makin dekat ni.

Well everyday aku doakan adalah rezeki yang baik baik untuk anak aku ni. Hati rasa risau sangat tak dapat beri yang terbaik. Yela kami berdua bukannya orang senang. Hutang bersepah la kan.

Jadinya semua doakan kami sihat dan diberikan rezeki yang baik baik untuk anak ini. Amin amin Ya Rabal Alamin


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Senarai Barangan Yang Perlu Dibeli Bagi Bakal Ibu (Kali Pertama)/List Of Things To Buy For New Mum(First Time)

seriously i did Google the title above sooo many times.luckily i have friend that is a mother of 3.she provide me with this list which i found it useful if u don't have anyone to tell u really what to buy.

1 Baju & seluar - 6 pasang (klu saiz new born 2 @ 3 pasang aje cukup ~ baby cpt besar).
2 Sarung tangan dan kaki - 5 pasang.
3 Topi baby utk mengelakkan ubun2 sejuk. 1 aje cukup.
4 Bedak, sabun, syampo, minyak rambut 1 set kecil aje. (Nanti mesti dpt hamper punya)
5 Lampin 1 dozen (guna utk bedung baby)
6 Diapers size S @ new born (beli brand murah aje dulu coz baby kerap berak)
7 Selimut baby 1 helai
8 Towel 1 helai @ beli set kembar pink & blue
9 Barut 5 helai (seelok?ya buat sendiri pakai tali ~ 17cm x 46cm)
10 Kelambu 1 jer
11 Tilam baby
12 Bantal 1 kepala 2 peluk (kalau boleh beli yg kekabu)
13 Bantal separuh bulat (yg dekat tengah?tu kosong) ~ sesuai bagi kepala baby licin @ straight
14 Botol susu 1 botol besar & 1 botol kecil
15 Tisu basah 1 botol besar
16 Kapas @ Cotton bud
17 Tisu kotak @ tisu bulat
18 Minyak telon utk mengelak perut kembung
19 Krim utk ruam lampin (Drapoline). Tapi waha guna bedak Peksan. Boleh dpt kat kedai ubat cina.
20 Plastik alas tidur
21 Besen mandi baby
22 Bakul letak kain baju
23 Bakul sampah kecil
24 Pam perah susu

Keperluan tambahan (klu perlu)
1 Katil baby @ Play pen
2 Buai
3 Bouncer
4 Kereta sorong
5 Kerusi dlm kereta
6 Walker (Klu 5 bln ke atas)
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OTHERS in ENGLISH

homeChecklist for newborn baby and mother

Baby
Clothes
long & short sleve shirt
short & long pants
mitten & booties
hat
changing mat
diapers
blanket
baby abdominal binder
baby towel
cupboard/basket for baby clothes
handkerchief
baby bag

Bathing
baby soap
baby powder
baby lotion/oil
baby syampoo
baby bath tub
slip-resistant bath mat
cotton buds
basket
bath thermometer
hair brush/comb

Feeding
bottle
teat
bottle brush
bottle warmer
sterilizer

Sleeping
pillow,bolsters and mattress
pillow, bolster and mattress case
baby cot/playpen

Others
oil
wet tissue
nail clippers
nose cleaner

Mother
Clothes
shirt
sarong
maternity pads
socks
handkerchief
slippers
binder

Food/herbs
milk
supplementary pills
confinement herbs

Breastfeeding
nursing bra
nursing pillow
breat pads
breast pump(working mother)
nursing poncho

Other
midwife/massager
batu tungku
guidance books

Bag to hospital
Baby
baby outfit
mitten & booties
hat
blanket
bottle
diapers

Mother
mykad
check up record
shirt
sarong
going-home outfit
maternity pads
socks
nursing bras
breast pads
panties
soap,tooth paste & toothbrush
comb
towel
slippers
massage oil/lotion
handkerchief
biscuits/snacks and drinks
camera

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*This is the detail list. Your list is depending on your needs




thanks to dear friend Maryam .hugs n kisses

28 Weeks Equal To 7 Month

Alhamdulilah ..
its been 28 weeks now ..oh my 7 months...another 2 months to go.macam macam rasa.its true that at this point according to my reading that the mother is already tak sabar bila la baby nak keluar even the fact is we know that its going to be another few months.

im gonna be honest here .
oh my the emotional breakdown that im having.im so scared that it will effected my baby.semua orang duk cakap u have to be patient, don't be all time angry, don't be mad at people, don't stress over things. things that i cant control.well im not expecting people to u know really understand that im pregnant as im not the only one pregnant..and i also know that i cant be explaining to each and everyone how the heck that i feel right now.

im not happy at home.im not sure why.its stressing me up.im usually happy at the office but now im not happy..because the way things is and how bad one person can be and how stress can that person make u be.i try to talk bout it with Que and friends but still i feel that they can only listen nothing can be done.at times i feel like i want to run away for all the things that happen now.just go somewhere where i can be alone...where i dont have to stress on things..where i dont have to tell people why am i being like this.ya Allah please help me.

i cry everyday.it gives me headache.i cant sleep.i cant eat.i cant do things.the only thing that i do at home is sleep and watching tv.i only get up to eat or toilet break.especially when Que not around as our off day is different.bila dia off aku kerja like today..bila aku off dia keje...so im officially alone and think too much.

i notice that im pressuring him a lot.a blame him for lotsa things especially when he  basically cant do anything to help me.u know the time when u tell all your problem but then in the end the only answer that come out from the person is "alah sabar jela nak buat macam mana " or " i also don't know what to do "..it is always frustrating to hear that kind of answer but deep in my heart i know i cant ask for more .

i have so many problems right now..from family ..money issue ...work issue ...health issue ...all in one making me stress.but i just cant avoid i dont have the streght.i know that he is not that strong so i have to be strong for him.i really apologize to my husband for making him suffer.seriously i know that i make u sakit hati with my attitude ..im sorry and thanks for being there.

dear sayang,
i hope one day when u learn to read and somehow u end up reading mummy's blog i hope u grow up being a good person..bijak..sempurna kat mata mummy dengan daddy.we hope that by the time u reading this u living a good life...a good life that mummy and daddy give to u..i hope u dont have to share my problems like how u share it with me now in mummy's tummy.i love u dearly.

Info Wanita Mengandung : Klinik Swasta Atau Klinik Kesihatan Kerajaan?

wah patutnya buat posting ni awal awal lagi untuk share dengan all future moms out there!

well masa mula mula knowing that im pregnant memang aku pergi check kat klinik swasta.sebab apa yela first baby kan so macam tak sabar nak tengok what happen kat dalam perut.haha sedangkan masa tuh awal lagi.apa jela yang nampak pun..nampak kantung je..ala yang bulat kosong tuh.dah masuk 3 bulan macam tuh baru le nampak budak kecik tuh ..tuh pun fetus je.

dari dulu lagi minded kita pasal klinik atau hospital kerajaan ni 1 je .SERVIS SUCKS..actually tak.dia ikut orang dan dengan siapa kita berhadapan masa tuh.buatnya nurse tuh tengah hangin satu badankan memang nasibla.u see u cant blame sebenarnya some of kakitangan klinik kerajaan ni.kalau yang kat dalam bilik tuh memang kadang agak rilek ..tapi kalau yang bahagian luar tuh mak hai dia punya sibuk aku pun tak tau bila masa dia makan.

lepas cukup 3bulan atas advise dari doktor cantik kat klinik dekat dengan my house i went to klinik kerajaan.MAKE SURE KALAU NAK PERGI KLINIK KERAJAAN MESTI PERGI YANG BERDEKATAN DENGAN RUMAH!so like for example macam aku duduk kat Seri Kembangan so aku kena pergi klinik kesihatan Seri Kembangan sebab kalau pergi area lain sah sah kena reject dan dia akan suruh pergi ke klinik yang berdekatan jugak.sebab dia kalau apa apa senang.ni duduk kat Seri Kembangan pergi cek kat Sungai Buloh pe kejadahkan.

first time masa pergi ke KK(Klinik Kesihatan) memang blur sangat sebab ramai sangat orang.lepas tuh nak tanya nurse tu kan macam sibuk je.jadi aku suruh Que pergi tanya sebab kalau kena marah ke hape dia yang kena .haha.mula mula dia suruh ambik nombor.dekat mesin ambik nombor tuh ada A(untuk ibu) B (untuk anak) C(untuk lain lain) jadi aku tekan A kemudian dia bagi buku merah untuk fill in.ok buku tuh macam ni(curik gambar kat gugel)

yang ni memang penting tak kira la nak bersalin kat swasta ke kerajaan ke boleh pakai buku ni.menariknya masa aku fill in buku ni nama kita dia akan letak sebagai Nama Ibu..nama bapaknya Nama Suami.macam comel je masa tuh nak tulis nama sendiri sebagai Nama Ibu.hehe.ok lepas tuh mula la proses menunggu.

ha ini la perbezaan paling ketara Klinik Swasta dengan Kerajaan..MENUNGGU..dia punya tunggu memang lama.thats why biasa mana yang dah pernah pergi advise datang awal.kadang datang awal macam mana pun ada lagi awal dari kita.

ok lepas nombor kena panggil dia akan tanya soalan macam duduk kat mana...nak bersalin kat mana..anak keberapa..all that soalan berkaitan la.kemudian kena cek tekanan darah,berat dengan tinggi..yang ni FIRST STAGE!

STAGE KEDUA..dia akan suruh pergi makmal.buat pengetahuan memang Klinik Kesihatan ni ajar berdikari sungguh..kalau kat Seri Kembangan kena jalan sikit ke belakang untuk ke makmal.makmal ni untuk cek air kencing dengan darah.yang ni pun kena berdikari.kena letak buku merah kat dalam bekas dia kemudian ambik paper cup..kat paper cup tuh ada nombor jadi kena ingat nombor tuh..kemudian pergi kencing letak balik cup tunggu sampai dia panggil nama.lepas dia panggil nama dia akan suruh ambik cup kemudian dia akan cek lepas tuh dia akan cucuk tangan ambik darah sikit.ok kemudian kena buang cup tuh jangan tinggal kat situ pulak.ikut pengalaman selama berapa bulan berkampung kat Klinik Kesihatan Seri Kembangan part ni paling aku tak suka sangat sebab kadang ada pekerja makmal ni suka sangat bersembang sampai kena tunggu lama sedangkan kalau dia orang buat cepat ..cepatla sikit proses selepas tu.

STAGE KETIGA...kalau masa kat STAGE KEDUA nurse tak bagitau kena pergi mana lepas tuh ok pergi balik kat dia tanya nak buat apa..biasanya kalau dah pernah datang dia akan bagitau terus bilik apa nak pergi lepas cek kat makmal.untuk first time datang kena pergi 1 bilik untuk ambil darah.sakit woo ..tapi jangan le kau pergi mengadu sakit ..sat lagi dia akan balas "sakit lagi nak beranak nanti"..eh nampak sangat aku mengeluh sakit masa tuh kan.haha.ok kalau dah pernah datang akan tau bilik mana nak masuk tapi kena letak dulu buku kat kotak bertulis nombor bilik yang nak masuk tuh..dan seperti biasa tunggu la lagi..

STAGE KEEMPAT...yang ni depends..kalau cepat lepas makmal ..cepat letak buku..cepat nurse buat kerja maka cepat la dia.ok lepas nombor kena panggil ha kena la masuk bilik nurse..kalau untuk first timer dia akan cek perut..cek ada masalah kesihatan ke tak..ala tanya soalan biasa je..lepas tuh dia akan assign tarikh appointment seterusnya dan tulis preskripsi ubat.kalau ada masalah kesihatan atau pun kena scan yang kena jumpa doktor ha kena tunggu lagi

STAGE KELIMA ..ini ada 3 cabang..samada kena jumpa doktor untuk scan atau pun kalau ada masalah kesihatan yang diberitahu masa STAGE KEEMPAT kena la jumpa doktor..yang ni memang kena tunggu sebab biasa Klinik Kesihatan ni doktor sorang je.kalau kat KK Seri Kembangan memang aku impress gila dengan doktor kat sini sebab dia ni steady je cek beratus ratus ibu dan anak tiap hari...lepas tuh dia asyik senyum je.cina perempuan.kalau tak kena jumpa doktor boleh pergi kaunter ambik ubat.ambik ubat kalau kat    KK Seri Kembangan sekejap je selama aku pergi ni.selain dari ni kalau ada kena cucuk ha kena masuk bilik cucuk especially bila dah 6 bulan lebih memang kena cucuk kancing gigi.2kali ye.memang lenguh tangan.eh lupa pulak early stage masa bulan ke 3atau 4 macam tuh kena minum air gula!

pengalaman minum air gula..........
aduhai masa tuh aku punya alahan tengah teruk.semua benda tak boleh masuk.proses nak minum air gula ni kena puasa hari sebelum selepas 12 malam tak boleh makan.sampai je kat klinik kena minum air gula kemudian tunggu 2jam baru boleh test darah.seksa.masa minum air gula tuh mintak maaf aku katakan yang aku menipu sikit .bila sebut air gula memang la tak rasa macam ngeri sangat tapi cuba ambik air suam lepas tuh letak dalam hermmmm 10 sudu besar gula ke..kemudian apa rasa?haaa aku berlari ke toilet muntah terus.sekian.hehe

ok lepas STAGE KEEMPAT kalau tak kena buat mana mana yang kat STAGE KELIMA boleh balik!
biasanya kalau aku pergi pukul 9 pagi habis dalam pukul 12 tengahari macam tuh.

berbalik kepada persoalan mana lagi bagus..SWASTA,tak perlu tunggu lama tapi mahal..KERAJAAN kena tunggu..normal la ramai orang kan..PERCUMA.check up dia sama je cuma kena berdikari la sikit.kalau kat SWASTA tuh yela semua dia buat dalam 1 masa kan tak ada la stage by stage macam dekat KERAJAAN.tapi 1 hal kalau pergi ke klinik SWASTA ni kan kalau ada kes dia akan for sure tolak ke KLINIK KERAJAAN .even kalau time nak bersalin ada masalah kan still dia akan tolak ke KERAJAAN.

pada aku la orang yang nak pergi cek kat swasta ni biasanya berduit dan kejar masa.kalau nak jimat pergi kerajaan je.sama je.ikut hati masing masingla.tapi 1 je kita janganla skeptical sangat pasal Klinik/Hospital Kerajaan ni.pasal nak beranak pun hal yang sama..kalau rasa nak kemain selesa dan ada duit 3,4k boleh la pergi swasta.off course la servis lebih bagus sebab dah kita bayar mahal kan.kalau pergi Hospital Kerajaan pun ada jugak yang bagus.tak semua tak bagus.dah nama hospital kan.kecuaian ke...tak friendly ke mana mana pun boleh jadi.pada aku baik duit tuh digunakan untuk lepas bersalin nanti.ye dak.ntah ni pendapat aku jela.eh banyaknya masa aku kat sini ye.ok BYE!

Most Definitely !Ukelele It Is!

aww u so cute !!!!!!!!!!!!

Selamat Hari Raya Dari Bik Mummy!

look at what bulan puasa did to me !dah makin tembam.badan pun naik.memang rezeki makan murah sangat bulan puasa ni.to be honest kalau bukan bulan puasa kan nak makan pun susah .kadang kadang makan je apa yang ada.tapi bulan puasa ni makan semua sedap sedap.especially kalau berbuka kat rumah mak long Afiq.selain dapat makan sedap sedap aku dengan Afiq tak ada la sedih sangat berbuka 2 orang je.and biasanya kalau bukan bulan puasa mesti jarang kita orang dapat makan sekali disebabkan waktu kerja yang tak sama.puasa ni diberi kelonggaran sikit untuk aku kerja ofis hour.jadi dari start puasa sampai la sekarang kami berbuka together and almost everyday la kita orang kat rumah mak long dia.nasib baik ada family ni yang dekat dengan kitaorang.kalau la mak dekat mesti hari hari berbuka rumah mak.hehe.orang yang family jauh je appriciate benda ni.

wah dah nak raya kan ?berapa hari je lagi .for this coming raya me and Afiq akan balik Perak !yey!im so happy over the top punya happy.hehe.the reason why sebab dah 2 tahun tak balik raya first kat kampung .tahun lepas balik kampung Afiq kat Batu Pahat, Johor . tahun sebelum tuh pulak kena kerja. maklum la kerja call center bukan senang nak dapat cuti ni.macam kerja nurse,doktor,shopping complex jugak la. mana pernah tutup kan.memang yang masa kerja tuh agak shahdu la bangun pagi dengar takbir raya menangis jugak la.first time masa tuh tak balik sebab kerja.nasib baik la ada kawan kawan senasib tapi sedih sebab tak ada makanan kedai lak banyak tutup.hari raya pertama makan rumah kawan yang family memang kat KL.petang tuh nangis makan kat fast food sebab semua kedai tutup.hehe.

last year pulak lagila disaster.ni pengakuan raya tahun lepas SINI .dah la beraya dapat 1 hari je sebab sikap kelam kabut orang lain. memang tak rasa raya la masa tuh. raya pertama sampai raya kedua tuh dah balik.sabar jelah.tapi tak apa la tak nak ingat dah sakit hati rasanya.

jadi tahun ni walaupun perbelanjaan terhad kami harap dapat beraya dengan happy.tahun ni lainnya yela sebab pregnant kan so memang menanti masakan mak yang sedap!sah sah naik lagi berat ni.but as long as im happy!and i am happy kalau dapat makan ni!hehe.

jadi kepada semua selamat hari raya.kita memang digalakkan menyambut hari raya ni sebagai tanda kemenangan setelah ramadan.berhari raya la dengan selamat dan happy semua!

Bik Mummy!

i am almost almost reaching my 6 month now and im enjoying every second of it!i gain weight also but only 1kg from the last checkup.im very much healthy and happy!wish me luck for the next 4moths yo!amin

Anger Management During Pregnancy! Tell Me About It!

i am not sure whether im the right person to give advise about this from what i read every pregnant lady suffer the same thing.when i got pregnant one of the things people keep telling me is that "beb u kena banyak sabar nanti anak u ikut perangai u suka marah marah" ok but tell me how am i going to control it if im very very angry?

well my husband pulak lain cerita.before i got pregnant kita orang memang suka argue even pasal benda benda kecik which is kinda annoying.the good thing about me getting pregnant dia memang tak suka sangat carik pasal.he always try his level best to make me happy.so in another word he have to express his anger elsewhere.like for example dia akan lepas kan  on the road ..lepas kan dekat kucing.oohh i so notice it alot!bila i sound him "hey why la u asyik nak marah je ?"then he always answer " so takkan la i nak lepas kan marah kat u pulak" ill be like dalam hati "o ye jugak ye " then i just let him be.hehe.

i always express my anger on my facebook status.just because i don't want to curse as my baby can listen now.but still ada jugak yang salah paham .bila aku letak all that anger on my status ada je yang "rilek nanti baby tuh ikut perangai ".adoi masalahnya im expressing it on my facebook status bukan i shout or something .plus do u expect pregnant lady to be cheerful all the time with all the back pain...annoying people ...headache and all?no right.so i think still we have the right to be angry!

plus im working at a call center. colleague will curse if they got issue with their calls..so i cant do anything as my working environment is already like that.as for your information i did attend a training last time and the trainer inform from my behavior test that im going to be a loving mother.Insyaallah.well hope we all can doa together my baby will be a wonderful baby okay.salam ramadhan!

Salam Ramadhan .I Am 5 Months Plus!

i am feeling all sort of things..headache come and go..here and there getting bigger especially my boobs haha.but i am enjoying that part..so does hubs.who doesn't.

actually i want to dedicate this posting to him. i am not going to up him ke whatever sebab nanti dia akan bangga gila eventhough he barely read my blog.dia ada sindrom malas membaca.well its been 4 years plus that we've  been together now.ups and down.but i want to story about how he change himself.sebelum kahwin i look at my parents and my siblings i cant figure it out macam mana la diaorang boleh kekal with one person sampai bertahun tahun?that's love,friendship and trust there blend together.

i cant imagine that i can be with the same guy this long.haha.i used to get so bored easily with men.not until i met him.oh my..my husband ni kira player jugak dulu.so player that aku sakit kepala.but i know so many player in my life that i know player mana pun akan ada 1 perempuan yang akan ada kat hati diaorang ..get married and stay with one.yang aku takut jenis lepas kahwin tak puas enjoy lagi.haih yang tuh susah.bukan niat nak membanggakan dia ke apa but im so proud of u Daddy!hihi.no more messing around okay.

so how am i doing at the moment?i am doing great!we just found out whether its a boy or girl.oh please don't guess sebab at one part we get soooo annoyed.bukan apa guessing its okay tapi lama lama jadi sangat annoyed bila guessing tuh jadi macam nak suruh aku cakap apa yang dia guess tuh betul.gosh !at a point me and him just cant take it sebab kita orang nak keep it between us.keep it private.sebab orang tua tua pun cakap tak elok hebahkan selagi belum lahir.like when i SMS my dad to tell the jantina of our baby he reply "jangan bagitau ramai ramai tak elok"..

so once the baby out to see the world i will inform the whole!now since the baby dah start kicking around and  from what i read dah start listening so i start to put up some music from beatles to aerosmith to maher zain.hehe.nice early parenting mummy!

and the best part since Ramadhan started my energy lain macam!sebelum bulan puasa memang pagi je dah lapar tak tertahan tahan.tapi bulan puasa ni start Ramadhan pertama aku tak rasa lapar sangat la kira boleh tahan sampai la waktu berbuka.larat solat lagi tapi nak ke terawih je tak larat.tuh la kuasa Allah.siap petang kalau balik awal dari ofis wah boleh mengemop bagai la mengemas rumah segala.

ok thats it for now!selamat berpuasa!

2nd Trimester !! I Feel Good!

wah its been a while that i dont update my blog.everytime i feel like posting something then bukak je new post terus blank.and last time also i dont have the energy nak buat apa pun because of my morning sickness.jangan kan nak menaip nak bercakap pun malas.teehee.but now energy dah lain macam.like most people around me said "u are having the best part of ur pregnancy now"

on my 1st trimester i suffer morning sickness yang sangat worse.then after the 16weeks(4months pregnant )i become more energetic and is start to enjoy eating again.the feeling is wonderful sebab sebelum tuh i cant even eat anything at all especially rice!jangan kan makan bau nasi pun tak boleh.but now almost everyday cari nasi.my favourite lauk sekarang 'ayam masak merah"..adoi!terliuq.nak nak pulak yang orang kahwin punya ayam masak merah.hey apsal sedap sangat!?hehe.

but the best achievement is that i quit on caffeine..o my coffee...dah 5 bulan tak taste coffee yang almost every morning dulu kalau tak pekena adoi memang tak boleh buat kerja la.then nicotine!o my cigarette!masa mula mula dapat tau pregnant dulu memang terpikir how the heck im i goin to quit on this 2 of my favourite routine.but then lepas kena morning sickness je terus i cant smell coffee and cigarette.bau je this 2 mesti rasa nak termuntah.Masyaallah memang Allah bagi senang la.luckily dear husband tak drink coffee but he do smoke but now he will smoke jauh jauh from me.

and another things that i deserve to get a pat in back is that since ive been together with Afiq that is 4 years ago he always request that i keep my hair long.i NEVER keep my hair long since i dont know...erk...when i was 14?punyala lama.so now that im pregnant he said to me that ok if kita dapat anak perempuan i tak nak nanti anak kita ikut u rambut pendek je..i want her to have long hair.but since sekarang tak tau lagi boy or girl tak apa la i keep my hair long for his sake.hehe.so to date this is the longest i ever keep and im definately keeping it walaupun rimas gila ok sebab dah biasa buat boy cut.whoever know me personally will definately suprise!but my hair kalau panjang memang bit mess.nasib baik now dah decide nak tutup kepala.so its much easier to manage tak payah nak stail stail..balik rumah je Afiq akan cakap my hair look like 'emak emak' punya rambut.haha.

well now that im 5months already i can feel my baby kicking .if i dont eat adoi lagi la dia siap pusing pusing..tendang tendang...mengeras....so sweet.u know u never think that 1 day u will get this kind of feeling yang perempuan je boleh rasa.kalau Afiq dia asyik sound baby dalam perut je like "baby duduk diam diam ye dalam perut mummy nanti kita makan" haha ...a strict father eventhough belum lahir lagi.nanti harap harap baby faham daddy rules the house...and mummy is always right.hehe.

Mummy Dont Have Much Time Now.

this is what i did basically on my daily days now..

all together now...awwwwww...u are the cutest(4months)

Here Is Our Concern Love

Dear child,it had been 3 days that i had lack of sleep..i keep on worrying about a lot of things.why oh why.i dont think that im the only one experience this. i think all mothers to be experiencing the same thing..well i think so heh.daddy is trying his level best. i truly can see that. if u know daddy the way i am i think u will understand why i can say that daddy's a change man. every time im worried he always said to me " dont worry everything will be ok u worried too much" which make me calm all the time.oh ya by the time im typing this u are 14weeks now :)

i keep on worrying wether im gonna be a good mother.wether i can provide all the things that u need in the future...what if i fail u?oh my..eventhough i know that its going to be a long way..a long road..but im still worried.mummy and daddy are not rich people. we also do not come from a wealthy family. we can only provide u whatever we can but still im really scared that it wont be enough.

i really hope that one day when u're born we both can provide u all the necessary thing that u need. and we dont have any future plans for u like celebration or anything..as we want u to decide on what u want in life..and we will try our level best to provide u things that u want in life..but put in mind "u want it u must earn it".thats what mummy and daddy gonna put ur mind into.

love,
mum and dad

Happy Father's Day To Daddy And Atuk!

Dear child,by the time I'm typing this u are almost reaching 4months in mummy's tummy.just so u know...tomorrow is Father's Day. It is celebrated 2nd Sunday every June. I'm not sure how ur daddy's gonna be someday...but I know he's going to be a great dad. Just like atuk. But atuk has a different approaching towards his kids. Let me tell u and all a story about my dad....

He's the kind of guy that always right!always!whatever he said u can't ever ever said the other way around. He never show his love by hugging or kissing his kids...but mummy for sure when me and ur uncles and aunts were small babies we were showered with it!

Since I'm the youngest...he follow me everywhere...(Oh god I'm crying when I'm typing this)..he ask opah to accompany me to kindergarden...opah was the cook at my kindergarden. When I enter 'sekolah rendah' he was there as the school head of PIBG(persatuan ibu bapa dan guru)...he was the one who handed me my cert every end year ceremony at school. He send me to school everyday..then send me to 'mengaji' every night.

When I enter 'sekolah menengah' atuk still send me to school.. Everytime he waited for me infront of the school my friend always tell me 'weh atuk kau dah tunggu kat depan'..haha. But it was my dad. He was looking so old with all the grey hair.

Then I went on to hostel at age 16. Atuk still send me there. He acted like 'ok I don't care anymore..u are big girl' still I know if can he will follow me everywhere. He will show up suprisingly during wekend and all. Then when I decided to stay home and take a bus to school he always like 'ok u prefer bus than me sending u so we will see how it is'...now I understand why after I'm not getting my bus...missed the bus...he will get ready soooo slow to send me!hehe.

Tell u something my child...what I'm trying to tell u here is that atuk never fail us...all of us..when I'm typing this I kept on thinking when did he ever fail me?never once. He will provide whatever I want. He is not a rich man but he got the richest heart. He never show it....but we know that we are loved....

Talk about ur daddy...he's going to be one great guy like atuk..never fail to provide mummy whatever I want..eventho I can be harsh sometime.. .but I'm for sure he have his different approaching too. U gonna have great mens in ur life..don't forget that..

Happy fathers day to all fathers out there. Especially to mine. Why did I deserve this men with the richest heart in the world ?? I am loved.
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