10/03/2011

Senarai Barangan Yang Perlu Dibeli Bagi Bakal Ibu (Kali Pertama)/List Of Things To Buy For New Mum(First Time)

seriously i did Google the title above sooo many times.luckily i have friend that is a mother of 3.she provide me with this list which i found it useful if u don't have anyone to tell u really what to buy.

1 Baju & seluar - 6 pasang (klu saiz new born 2 @ 3 pasang aje cukup ~ baby cpt besar).
2 Sarung tangan dan kaki - 5 pasang.
3 Topi baby utk mengelakkan ubun2 sejuk. 1 aje cukup.
4 Bedak, sabun, syampo, minyak rambut 1 set kecil aje. (Nanti mesti dpt hamper punya)
5 Lampin 1 dozen (guna utk bedung baby)
6 Diapers size S @ new born (beli brand murah aje dulu coz baby kerap berak)
7 Selimut baby 1 helai
8 Towel 1 helai @ beli set kembar pink & blue
9 Barut 5 helai (seelok?ya buat sendiri pakai tali ~ 17cm x 46cm)
10 Kelambu 1 jer
11 Tilam baby
12 Bantal 1 kepala 2 peluk (kalau boleh beli yg kekabu)
13 Bantal separuh bulat (yg dekat tengah?tu kosong) ~ sesuai bagi kepala baby licin @ straight
14 Botol susu 1 botol besar & 1 botol kecil
15 Tisu basah 1 botol besar
16 Kapas @ Cotton bud
17 Tisu kotak @ tisu bulat
18 Minyak telon utk mengelak perut kembung
19 Krim utk ruam lampin (Drapoline). Tapi waha guna bedak Peksan. Boleh dpt kat kedai ubat cina.
20 Plastik alas tidur
21 Besen mandi baby
22 Bakul letak kain baju
23 Bakul sampah kecil
24 Pam perah susu

Keperluan tambahan (klu perlu)
1 Katil baby @ Play pen
2 Buai
3 Bouncer
4 Kereta sorong
5 Kerusi dlm kereta
6 Walker (Klu 5 bln ke atas)
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OTHERS in ENGLISH

homeChecklist for newborn baby and mother

Baby
Clothes
long & short sleve shirt
short & long pants
mitten & booties
hat
changing mat
diapers
blanket
baby abdominal binder
baby towel
cupboard/basket for baby clothes
handkerchief
baby bag

Bathing
baby soap
baby powder
baby lotion/oil
baby syampoo
baby bath tub
slip-resistant bath mat
cotton buds
basket
bath thermometer
hair brush/comb

Feeding
bottle
teat
bottle brush
bottle warmer
sterilizer

Sleeping
pillow,bolsters and mattress
pillow, bolster and mattress case
baby cot/playpen

Others
oil
wet tissue
nail clippers
nose cleaner

Mother
Clothes
shirt
sarong
maternity pads
socks
handkerchief
slippers
binder

Food/herbs
milk
supplementary pills
confinement herbs

Breastfeeding
nursing bra
nursing pillow
breat pads
breast pump(working mother)
nursing poncho

Other
midwife/massager
batu tungku
guidance books

Bag to hospital
Baby
baby outfit
mitten & booties
hat
blanket
bottle
diapers

Mother
mykad
check up record
shirt
sarong
going-home outfit
maternity pads
socks
nursing bras
breast pads
panties
soap,tooth paste & toothbrush
comb
towel
slippers
massage oil/lotion
handkerchief
biscuits/snacks and drinks
camera

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*This is the detail list. Your list is depending on your needs




thanks to dear friend Maryam .hugs n kisses

10/01/2011

28 Weeks Equal To 7 Month

Alhamdulilah ..
its been 28 weeks now ..oh my 7 months...another 2 months to go.macam macam rasa.its true that at this point according to my reading that the mother is already tak sabar bila la baby nak keluar even the fact is we know that its going to be another few months.

im gonna be honest here .
oh my the emotional breakdown that im having.im so scared that it will effected my baby.semua orang duk cakap u have to be patient, don't be all time angry, don't be mad at people, don't stress over things. things that i cant control.well im not expecting people to u know really understand that im pregnant as im not the only one pregnant..and i also know that i cant be explaining to each and everyone how the heck that i feel right now.

im not happy at home.im not sure why.its stressing me up.im usually happy at the office but now im not happy..because the way things is and how bad one person can be and how stress can that person make u be.i try to talk bout it with Que and friends but still i feel that they can only listen nothing can be done.at times i feel like i want to run away for all the things that happen now.just go somewhere where i can be alone...where i dont have to stress on things..where i dont have to tell people why am i being like this.ya Allah please help me.

i cry everyday.it gives me headache.i cant sleep.i cant eat.i cant do things.the only thing that i do at home is sleep and watching tv.i only get up to eat or toilet break.especially when Que not around as our off day is different.bila dia off aku kerja like today..bila aku off dia keje...so im officially alone and think too much.

i notice that im pressuring him a lot.a blame him for lotsa things especially when he  basically cant do anything to help me.u know the time when u tell all your problem but then in the end the only answer that come out from the person is "alah sabar jela nak buat macam mana " or " i also don't know what to do "..it is always frustrating to hear that kind of answer but deep in my heart i know i cant ask for more .

i have so many problems right now..from family ..money issue ...work issue ...health issue ...all in one making me stress.but i just cant avoid i dont have the streght.i know that he is not that strong so i have to be strong for him.i really apologize to my husband for making him suffer.seriously i know that i make u sakit hati with my attitude ..im sorry and thanks for being there.

dear sayang,
i hope one day when u learn to read and somehow u end up reading mummy's blog i hope u grow up being a good person..bijak..sempurna kat mata mummy dengan daddy.we hope that by the time u reading this u living a good life...a good life that mummy and daddy give to u..i hope u dont have to share my problems like how u share it with me now in mummy's tummy.i love u dearly.