8/26/2011

Selamat Hari Raya Dari Bik Mummy!


look at what bulan puasa did to me !dah makin tembam.badan pun naik.memang rezeki makan murah sangat bulan puasa ni.to be honest kalau bukan bulan puasa kan nak makan pun susah .kadang kadang makan je apa yang ada.tapi bulan puasa ni makan semua sedap sedap.especially kalau berbuka kat rumah mak long Afiq.selain dapat makan sedap sedap aku dengan Afiq tak ada la sedih sangat berbuka 2 orang je.and biasanya kalau bukan bulan puasa mesti jarang kita orang dapat makan sekali disebabkan waktu kerja yang tak sama.puasa ni diberi kelonggaran sikit untuk aku kerja ofis hour.jadi dari start puasa sampai la sekarang kami berbuka together and almost everyday la kita orang kat rumah mak long dia.nasib baik ada family ni yang dekat dengan kitaorang.kalau la mak dekat mesti hari hari berbuka rumah mak.hehe.orang yang family jauh je appriciate benda ni.

wah dah nak raya kan ?berapa hari je lagi .for this coming raya me and Afiq akan balik Perak !yey!im so happy over the top punya happy.hehe.the reason why sebab dah 2 tahun tak balik raya first kat kampung .tahun lepas balik kampung Afiq kat Batu Pahat, Johor . tahun sebelum tuh pulak kena kerja. maklum la kerja call center bukan senang nak dapat cuti ni.macam kerja nurse,doktor,shopping complex jugak la. mana pernah tutup kan.memang yang masa kerja tuh agak shahdu la bangun pagi dengar takbir raya menangis jugak la.first time masa tuh tak balik sebab kerja.nasib baik la ada kawan kawan senasib tapi sedih sebab tak ada makanan kedai lak banyak tutup.hari raya pertama makan rumah kawan yang family memang kat KL.petang tuh nangis makan kat fast food sebab semua kedai tutup.hehe.

last year pulak lagila disaster.ni pengakuan raya tahun lepas SINI .dah la beraya dapat 1 hari je sebab sikap kelam kabut orang lain. memang tak rasa raya la masa tuh. raya pertama sampai raya kedua tuh dah balik.sabar jelah.tapi tak apa la tak nak ingat dah sakit hati rasanya.

jadi tahun ni walaupun perbelanjaan terhad kami harap dapat beraya dengan happy.tahun ni lainnya yela sebab pregnant kan so memang menanti masakan mak yang sedap!sah sah naik lagi berat ni.but as long as im happy!and i am happy kalau dapat makan ni!hehe.

jadi kepada semua selamat hari raya.kita memang digalakkan menyambut hari raya ni sebagai tanda kemenangan setelah ramadan.berhari raya la dengan selamat dan happy semua!

8/24/2011

Bik Mummy!



i am almost almost reaching my 6 month now and im enjoying every second of it!i gain weight also but only 1kg from the last checkup.im very much healthy and happy!wish me luck for the next 4moths yo!amin

8/15/2011

Anger Management During Pregnancy! Tell Me About It!

i am not sure whether im the right person to give advise about this from what i read every pregnant lady suffer the same thing.when i got pregnant one of the things people keep telling me is that "beb u kena banyak sabar nanti anak u ikut perangai u suka marah marah" ok but tell me how am i going to control it if im very very angry?

well my husband pulak lain cerita.before i got pregnant kita orang memang suka argue even pasal benda benda kecik which is kinda annoying.the good thing about me getting pregnant dia memang tak suka sangat carik pasal.he always try his level best to make me happy.so in another word he have to express his anger elsewhere.like for example dia akan lepas kan  on the road ..lepas kan dekat kucing.oohh i so notice it alot!bila i sound him "hey why la u asyik nak marah je ?"then he always answer " so takkan la i nak lepas kan marah kat u pulak" ill be like dalam hati "o ye jugak ye " then i just let him be.hehe.

i always express my anger on my facebook status.just because i don't want to curse as my baby can listen now.but still ada jugak yang salah paham .bila aku letak all that anger on my status ada je yang "rilek nanti baby tuh ikut perangai ".adoi masalahnya im expressing it on my facebook status bukan i shout or something .plus do u expect pregnant lady to be cheerful all the time with all the back pain...annoying people ...headache and all?no right.so i think still we have the right to be angry!

plus im working at a call center. colleague will curse if they got issue with their calls..so i cant do anything as my working environment is already like that.as for your information i did attend a training last time and the trainer inform from my behavior test that im going to be a loving mother.Insyaallah.well hope we all can doa together my baby will be a wonderful baby okay.salam ramadhan!

8/09/2011

Salam Ramadhan .I Am 5 Months Plus!

i am feeling all sort of things..headache come and go..here and there getting bigger especially my boobs haha.but i am enjoying that part..so does hubs.who doesn't.

actually i want to dedicate this posting to him. i am not going to up him ke whatever sebab nanti dia akan bangga gila eventhough he barely read my blog.dia ada sindrom malas membaca.well its been 4 years plus that we've  been together now.ups and down.but i want to story about how he change himself.sebelum kahwin i look at my parents and my siblings i cant figure it out macam mana la diaorang boleh kekal with one person sampai bertahun tahun?that's love,friendship and trust there blend together.

i cant imagine that i can be with the same guy this long.haha.i used to get so bored easily with men.not until i met him.oh my..my husband ni kira player jugak dulu.so player that aku sakit kepala.but i know so many player in my life that i know player mana pun akan ada 1 perempuan yang akan ada kat hati diaorang ..get married and stay with one.yang aku takut jenis lepas kahwin tak puas enjoy lagi.haih yang tuh susah.bukan niat nak membanggakan dia ke apa but im so proud of u Daddy!hihi.no more messing around okay.

so how am i doing at the moment?i am doing great!we just found out whether its a boy or girl.oh please don't guess sebab at one part we get soooo annoyed.bukan apa guessing its okay tapi lama lama jadi sangat annoyed bila guessing tuh jadi macam nak suruh aku cakap apa yang dia guess tuh betul.gosh !at a point me and him just cant take it sebab kita orang nak keep it between us.keep it private.sebab orang tua tua pun cakap tak elok hebahkan selagi belum lahir.like when i SMS my dad to tell the jantina of our baby he reply "jangan bagitau ramai ramai tak elok"..

so once the baby out to see the world i will inform the whole!now since the baby dah start kicking around and  from what i read dah start listening so i start to put up some music from beatles to aerosmith to maher zain.hehe.nice early parenting mummy!

and the best part since Ramadhan started my energy lain macam!sebelum bulan puasa memang pagi je dah lapar tak tertahan tahan.tapi bulan puasa ni start Ramadhan pertama aku tak rasa lapar sangat la kira boleh tahan sampai la waktu berbuka.larat solat lagi tapi nak ke terawih je tak larat.tuh la kuasa Allah.siap petang kalau balik awal dari ofis wah boleh mengemop bagai la mengemas rumah segala.

ok thats it for now!selamat berpuasa!

8/02/2011

2nd Trimester !! I Feel Good!

wah its been a while that i dont update my blog.everytime i feel like posting something then bukak je new post terus blank.and last time also i dont have the energy nak buat apa pun because of my morning sickness.jangan kan nak menaip nak bercakap pun malas.teehee.but now energy dah lain macam.like most people around me said "u are having the best part of ur pregnancy now"

on my 1st trimester i suffer morning sickness yang sangat worse.then after the 16weeks(4months pregnant )i become more energetic and is start to enjoy eating again.the feeling is wonderful sebab sebelum tuh i cant even eat anything at all especially rice!jangan kan makan bau nasi pun tak boleh.but now almost everyday cari nasi.my favourite lauk sekarang 'ayam masak merah"..adoi!terliuq.nak nak pulak yang orang kahwin punya ayam masak merah.hey apsal sedap sangat!?hehe.

but the best achievement is that i quit on caffeine..o my coffee...dah 5 bulan tak taste coffee yang almost every morning dulu kalau tak pekena adoi memang tak boleh buat kerja la.then nicotine!o my cigarette!masa mula mula dapat tau pregnant dulu memang terpikir how the heck im i goin to quit on this 2 of my favourite routine.but then lepas kena morning sickness je terus i cant smell coffee and cigarette.bau je this 2 mesti rasa nak termuntah.Masyaallah memang Allah bagi senang la.luckily dear husband tak drink coffee but he do smoke but now he will smoke jauh jauh from me.

and another things that i deserve to get a pat in back is that since ive been together with Afiq that is 4 years ago he always request that i keep my hair long.i NEVER keep my hair long since i dont know...erk...when i was 14?punyala lama.so now that im pregnant he said to me that ok if kita dapat anak perempuan i tak nak nanti anak kita ikut u rambut pendek je..i want her to have long hair.but since sekarang tak tau lagi boy or girl tak apa la i keep my hair long for his sake.hehe.so to date this is the longest i ever keep and im definately keeping it walaupun rimas gila ok sebab dah biasa buat boy cut.whoever know me personally will definately suprise!but my hair kalau panjang memang bit mess.nasib baik now dah decide nak tutup kepala.so its much easier to manage tak payah nak stail stail..balik rumah je Afiq akan cakap my hair look like 'emak emak' punya rambut.haha.

well now that im 5months already i can feel my baby kicking .if i dont eat adoi lagi la dia siap pusing pusing..tendang tendang...mengeras....so sweet.u know u never think that 1 day u will get this kind of feeling yang perempuan je boleh rasa.kalau Afiq dia asyik sound baby dalam perut je like "baby duduk diam diam ye dalam perut mummy nanti kita makan" haha ...a strict father eventhough belum lahir lagi.nanti harap harap baby faham daddy rules the house...and mummy is always right.hehe.