4/16/2012

Baby First Solid Food

budak comot cranky asking for food!!

well i try my level best now and then to update my blogs when i have the time for my future reading especially this so that i can remember Kaliq's progress and to share with many my own experience.

actually when Kaliq was like 2months he already eat solid food .basically its biscuit and milk.his opah give it to him T_T. at that time i was not so happy bout it as most doctor inform me that baby can eat only after 6months and if u can see most of baby food in store is actually for 6 months and above.his grandma said "alah dah lapar kasi la makan".huhu. i did ask some doctor bout this and it depends on the baby actually if they are ok with it then carry on.but some baby can get stomach problem than can lead to serious cases.

but at times i do agree with my mom when she said 'orang dulu dulu masa dalam pantang lagi dah kasi anak makan tau.gaul gaul je tepung kasi makan habis je,,,sihat je.." very true and i was one of the baby.haha.but normal la u see for 1st time mom to be scared of new things especially bout their babies.

well anyway Kaliq is officially 4 months so i try giving him Heinz apple and banana as Heinz is the only baby food that i found that offers for 4months old baby.it cost around 4rm just to try if Kaliq wants it so i only buy 1.if he is ok with it than easy peasy i just blend the fruits for him!


turn out he hates it! like 5minutes after giving him he puke it back.so my sister advise me to give him cookies and milk.so today i try Milna cookies banana flavour.mix it with milk .he loves it!any cookies would do especially biskut meri !he was kicking and screaming if i dont feed him fast.rebel!


so basically this is the food that is appropriate for baby from 4 to 6 months(some of it)

  • cereals and grains -rice-barley-oat
  • fruits-avocado-apple-banana-pears
  • vegetable-sweet potatoes- green beans
let our baby explore new things!hopefully Kaliq is ok accepting new food !

A baby's tummy is the size of his fist - remember this as you are feeding him; it doesn't take much food to make a "meal"!

4/12/2012

Bye Bye My Tiger Family

Well basically when I was typing this I am on my way to work. And today is my last day working at Tiger Airways Symphony. Its been 2years of sweetness and bitterness. On the 5th it was our 2years anniversary for the 1st batch that started this project.

I can't believe its already 2years. This job is very close to my heart. Its so not same like all the jobs I have before. Basically I love this job. I don't have to think much,I have fun,I laugh most of the time..all because of the peoples here.

Salary wise..well I don't want to touch on part that disappoint me. I wanna remember all the good things.

I remember on our training days. For new hire for your information 1st batch training was almost a month and kitaorang memang ketaq gila ok nak jawab call pasai we are the 1st batch. We are the one who will create the 'getaway'.

During training there some that I remembered the most. Remember the time when Muz told us that his 'atuk kahwin!'Hang nak menipu tipu betul betul boleh tak! Then Bob buat alphabet pakai bontot. How Naz and Sirus talks too much!haha. Dan betapa kurusnya aku masa tuh!!!!! Awesome time. Masa tu berharap sungguh aku yang Team Leader aku bukan Vikroy!kemain sombong dia masa tu. Nasib baik dapat Fitry hahahhaha.

When we 1st started on call terus handle kes Bangkok banjir! Everyday we answered almost 100calls! Dan kebanyakannya semua nak kompelin!hari hari kena marah dengan pax. Komisyen pulak masa tuh memang kelakar..paling tinggi pun 100 lebih yang Vani dapat itupun kita dah tepuk tangan!see how from the 100 komisyen jadi 1k sekarang??

There's some people that I need to mention here. Start from our Team Leader. Fitry my 1st TL a cool person tapi kalau dia marah nasib la kau. Vik!!! Yang selalu ada 'hari Vik period' we called it everytime he's in a bad mood and dia selalu kena dengan aku and Arni. Not to forget Joon Han yang selalu cari pasai dengan aku!and Angel who everybody hates sampai Kelvin nak tukar TL but she's actually ok.hahaha.

Agents!man I have lots to say bout my collegue.Bob!apa saja yang keluar dari mulut dia aku rasa nak pukui je lepas tu pelesit pantang hp terlepas kat tangan dia adala status kita dia update! Seriously saying kalau dia tak ada call center tu macam sunyi sikit. Tapi dia takut dengan girlfriend dia Kikin kalau orang lain macam macam dia kenakan!dengan Kikin ha cuba la dia!tagteam dia Naqib.kalau depa bergabung herm habis la kau.Sirus!dia punya greeting saja 1call floor boleh dengar! 'Even if u talk to the king also cannot!' Haha.Eleen! My god who could forget her???fuhh.

So many stories that I can share here but once u want to put it in here ur mind just goes blank. So to the rest.. Muz,Azim,Hawa,Hana,Jihan,Bonet...good luck guys!and to my good fren Arni!haiyo nanti tak dak geng nak gelak gelak nak mengata!

To all of u anyone that I forgot to mention I'm gonna miss u guys !I hope there will be better things for u guys in the future also.fuhh I'm gonna miss Tiger!u guys are my extended famly!!! I love each and everyone of u!!!

See u guys on dinner day!
Gosh...cried...

Kakak shaf
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4/10/2012

A Big Boy He Is!

look at him !look at him!
he is so big now o my handsome boy.
mummy miss u everyday.u never know how it feels not until u become a mother on your own.
u will never know how being married is until u are in it.

so Kaliq's is almost 4 months now.he finally can do this!
TADAAA!!!
haha .its amazing to see how your child develops infront of your eyes.i miss u baby.i cant wait for us to be together again.i muahhh u long time.

3/12/2012

Hai I Am Kaliq!

Assalamualaikum and hai!my name is Kaliq Rafael b. Mohd Khairul Afiq. Mumy cal me Kaliq or sometime Raff. Well many people ask anyway what my name really means. Kaliq means creative while Rafael means god has healed in Spanish. And Kaliq is also actually the combination dady's name Khairul Afiq and mummy's name Salina.

By the time I'm invading mummy's space here I am officialy 3months old. Well most of the time I just sleep and drink me milk. Grrrr(pirate sound).

Anyway I live quite far from mum and dad as they have to setle things so that I can live with them comfortably. For the time being I'm staying with my ayah lang and mak yang and my4 cousins.

Well it doesn't matter anyway I'm still the bos whereever I go. Bein grown up is boring! Babies have more fun u see. I just cry and I have everyone to do things for me(don't tell anyone its our secret okay!)

Ok then I have to go. Wish me well and mummy daddy murah rezeki ok so that I can stay with them fast!

Love,
Handsome boy kaliq rafael

3/11/2012

This Is A Confession True From MyHeart. I Am Telling All.

I try not to cry every night before I go to sleep as I'm missing Kaliq so much. A part of me is lost. He's been with me all the time but mum and dad got things to settle.

I'm not sure how one can be far from their babies.I'm sure I can't. A friend of mine from the office she's been apart from her baby for quite some time as she's working here and her baby is back with her mom at Jakarta. And I can see that she have a pretty tuff heart. I don't know how she do it at least I can see Kaliq once a week while she can only see her son like 5months once. I see her streght and I develop mine.

Everyday I come back from work I always expect to see him back home. But I know I won't. When he was home all my penat gone away. So I can say its true when people said 'tengok muka anak hilang penat'.

To be honest our life is not in a good place. As Jessie J said 'its all bout the money money money'. And because of our job demand us to work on wekend and late shift till night we have to send him to stay with my sister at Pahang. I went and visit him like once a week if I can. I'm so lucky that I have my sister. My lifesaver. She's wiling to jaga Kaliq for awhile. Wakeup in the middle of the night to make his milk and all as its been a long time that she haven't got a baby. All her children semua dah besar and all girls so a boy would be nice in the family. Plus I know kaliq's be gettin lotsa love there from his cousins and uncle.

I try to take my mind away from him. And wow its not easy. From someone that use to sleep at 12-1am I now sleep at 10pm almost every day. I'm so tired and my mind is elsewhere. Work is the only place that I can make myself busy or have a good laugh. Hubs try to make me feel happy but then I still feel empty. My heart is empty so does our house.

U see when I was pregnant I never think of this. All I know is 'wah seronoknya ada anak' but I never think of the hard part. Being away from him is the biggest test of all. The 2nd thing was of course when he was at the hospital. I'm bless that I have a wonderful family. Kaliq was admitted here in serdang and my famly comes from as far as perak and pahang to visit. But poor hubs not one I repeat NOT ONE of his family come n visit except for his father but him also now stop caring after my hubs mengadu masalah to him.

I'm telling my story as I can't take it anymore. Hubs is a great guy despite his lack of luck. My son bukan kena sakit biasa at that time. He kena pneunomia which is dangerous. Thank you Allah for all the pahala given and giving me the courage to take care of my son during that 7days at the hospital. My mother in law never once call and ask khabar . His cousins who are very close with him also nada! Poor hubs he feels like nobody on his side cares about his son sedangkan this is cucu/cicit pertama on his side. Why and why and why?teruk sangat ke dia? And tell me what did kaliq did to u guys that he deserve this kind of famly. Don't wory my lil man u always have me,daddy,ur cousins,ur aunties,uncles and of course atuk and opah on mummy's side. Mum will teach u what famly really are.

I hope that everything goes well so that we can bring kaliq's back with us. Amin ya Allah. Kaliq,mumy miss u everyday. Every night mumy cries but mumy keep it from dady. Mumy cry slowly so that dady can't hear n he won't be sad too. I mis u so much and I love u more than my nyawa. U are my nyawa.
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